Celebrate good times...come on!

In honor of my brothers nuptials a few weeks ago, and his receptions here in PA today I would like to post my best man's speech to him and his new wife Marilyn. The speech went over really well and I thought I should share it. Feel free to rip off my idea because it is that good :)
Congratulations to Andy and Marilyn Steckiel!


I’ve know Andy since June 13, 1984 and I’m sure there are pictures somewhere to prove it. We have had up and downs but at the end of the day we play for the same team. He’s my brother and one of my best friends. Whether it’s the goofy ear to ear grin or turning his head to check out some hot sexy …car he has always been the same Andy. Passionate, stubborn, and lovable.

But I’m not here just to roast and toast Andy today. I’m here to celebrate his new life with his wonderful bride Marilyn. From what I have gotten to know of Marilyn she should be able to tame..err…enhance all of my brother’s wonder intricacies. I really do wish you two all the best. If you ever need anything, Nik and I will only be a ghetto town away.

Now what would a wedding be without a little advice from a seasoned veteran of marriage who really hasn’t figured anything out and is constantly apologizing for mistakes. So, without further adieu, I give you 7 songs from Matt’s IPod to help your marriage. I put my IPod on shuffle and these 7 songs did come up.

1. Moby Dick by Led Zeppelin

a. Sometimes all you need is the music. This great song without a single word was meant to showcase the fantastic drum skills of the late John Bonham, but would have never been the track it was without the mad guitar skills of Jimmy Page. While you both will always be the band, sometimes you need to let the other one shine. As you start your life together, never forget you need each other but recognize that each of you has your own talents that need to come through.

2. Foxy Lady by Jimmy Hendrix

a. Pretty comes and goes, but foxy is forever. While you don’t have to run around like Garth in Wayne’s world with the foxy ears; Andy always remember to compliment Marilyn. Telling your wife how beautiful she is never gets old, and never goes out of style. Remind her how good she looks, how she makes you feel, and that she is your one and only foxy lady

3. Sabotage by The Beastie Boys

a. While this song may be best known for my renditions on Rock Band – it tells the story of someone who is being undermined. Throughout your marriage many outside influences will try to sabotage your marriage and undermine the bond that you are trying to strengthen. Make sure you keep your eyes open and be ready to face them together when they come.

4. I Walk the Line – Johnny Cash

a. As sure as night is dark and day is light,

I keep you on my mind both day and night.
And happiness I’ve known proves that it’s right.
Because you’re mine,
I walk the line.

b. Listen to this song, and think of the one you love. It’s impossible to do without smiling. It tells the story of being focused soley on that special someone and the happiness that true, dedicated love brings. Stay on each others minds and you’ll be happier people. We all know Andy needs it

5. All the Small Things – Blink182

a. When we look back on life, we remember big events. Birth, vacations, graduation, MARRIAGE, etc. But compared to the rest of your time on earth these make up a small percentage of your time. It’s all the small things day to day that will really shape you and your marriage.

6. Livin on a Prayer – Bon Jovi

a. I’m going to make a stretch here and hope I don’t get struck by lightning. Andy, you’re Tommy and I know you don’t work on the docks, and Marilyn you’re Gina and I’m not sure if you’ll work the diner all day; but in the end all you have is each other and the Lord. Never forget that third person in your marriage. Make sure he is always present in your life together.

7. No Phone – Cake

a. So you guys are headed to the great white north for your honeymoon. I’m not sure they have phones in Canada or what – but really enjoy your time together alone. Life will come fast and furious once you get back. Get all you can out of your time away from everything. Enjoy yourselves, relax, and have fun.